Hmm... one of my favorite spots to hang out is
Insimenator.net, but you probably already know about that one. There's also the first and noisiest of all Sims sites,
The Sims Resource. People at
Mod The Sims 2 tend to be less chatty, more focused on making stuff and downloading it.
Erm... a couple of other sites come to mind, but... are you an adult?